If you want to meet up with transgender females, no matter you meet each other on trans hookup apps like Transdr, or face to face in real life, remember these tips. If you read this tips before and don’t understand them, or you think they don’t apply to your circumstances, then you might have no such concern to maintain such trans dating relationship.
Do not call her shemale or ladyboy. If you call her shemale instead of woman, she would think you don’t take her seriously and you don’t think her as a female. She thinks herself as a woman and so should you. The second terms stem from porn industries. If you refer to them in such word, most of them would think you are being disrespectful.
Transgender females are often deemed as sexual toys and they loathe that. Evidence shows that they are more likely to be mistreated than cisgender women. If you keep doing that, stop and think. Would you treat a cisgender woman in this way? She did not transition to offer you a hard man image. Just treat her in the way you would treat any other cisgender woman.
Be a gentleman. Treat her as you would treat any other ladies. Open the car door for her. Let her order in the restaurant. Do not mention her sexual identification in the first date. Why not? Just think would you talk about their genitals if you are dating a cisgender woman? If it is rude for a cisgender woman, it is rude for them as well. Save all your questions to the right time. In this way, you will stand out from all your competitors.
If you ask her why you decided to be a woman, you will be expelled for sure. This question reveals so many things. For the very first, you are ignorance that you even don’t try to educate yourself before ts dating her. Second, you don’t approve her sexual identification. Transgender females are women all along from their birth. Transition is only a process to let her body to match with her thought. This is not a lifestyle to choose, but an unmodifiable and undeniable fact. Just like a homosexual person “decide” to be a lesbian or a gay, because they are homosexual all along. When she lives as a male, she is pretending to be a male. She might look like a male and act like one, but she’s never been.
You should know most transgender female are interested in cisgender straight male, because if a bisexual male performs sexually with them, it would be too weird. Although there is exception. Over 90% of transgender female who have not had surgeries want to be considered as female, but not female with male genitals. Generally, they are not interested in bisexual male. They want to be appreciated because of their female character, that is their personalities, their thinking, sympathy, innovation and so on, but not their male genitals. However, they are trapped. Until they turn it to a vagina, these fetish will exist for the time being.